- Are you frustrated by misalignment during performance reviews or evaluations?
- Do you wast time and energy trying to understand what's expected of you?
- Do you struggle to create alignment between you and your employees, clients, managers, customers, vendors, teachers, or family?
Tuesday, July 10, 2012
Take Your Goals from SMART to SMART as Hell!
Wednesday, July 7, 2010
Four Lessons for Teachers from Bruce Lee
Last week, at one of my favorite used book stores, I picked up a book of quotes by Bruce Lee, called "Striking Thoughts".
- "Remember, I am no teacher; I can merely be a signpost for a traveler who is lost"
- "The ideal teacher - not 'what' to think, but 'how' to think"
- "Defeat simply tells me that something is wrong in my doing it is a path to success and truth"
- "Where method is, freedom is not"
- Take my words and do with them what you will. Your milage may vary...
- Observe and explore my process, not my content.
- Failure is not only to be expected, but welcomed and even celebrated.
- If you didn't hear me the first time, reread 1, 2, & 3!!
Wednesday, January 27, 2010
Le Grand Tour D'Asia: Day 20 of 58
Thursday, January 21, 2010
Le Grand Tour D'Asia: Day 14 of 58
Thursday, January 21st
Tuesday, September 15, 2009
Learning the Kirkpatrick Levels
Wednesday, September 2, 2009
5 Applications for Video Coaching
Last week, Ken Wells and I co-facilitated a "High-Tech Speaking" Workshop at KT.
The course is excellent. We had a great time working with the attendees.
But this post is about video coaching. The High Tech Speaking workshop uses one-on-one video coaching to help attendees see their strengths and weaknesses. It makes them aware of the gap between what they feel (I feel so nervous!) and what the audience sees (But I don't look nervous!).
Video is a very powerful tool. So powerful, in fact, that I wonder why it isn't used in all training? Here's a list of five places where I would apply video training or coaching.
- Presentation Skills: This one is obvious. In fact, I'll say that you should never do presentation training without video coaching.
- Team Activities: We almost always tape team activities (like the spiderweb). Activities create, in 20 minutes, interpersonal dynamics that would take a year to see in 'normal' operating mode. When we capture these on video, teams can see how they ignored one employee, or divided into cliques, etc. One of my favorite uses of video.
- Coaching: In many of my coaching sessions, coachees want to practice a dialog that they will have with a manager or peer. When they do their 'rehearsal', I sometimes video tape them (just using the video function on my pocket digital camera). We can then replay the video and look at body language, tone, and facial expressions. Very useful.
- Coaching Role Plays: In courses that teach managers who coach, role plays should be videotaped. It's very difficult for anyone to sense how they come across, and they don't always trust feedback. Video is objective.
- Customer Interface Role Plays: Used in the same way as Coaching Role Plays. One person plays the hot customer, while the other tries to defuse the situation. Replaying on video allows both to make constructive feedback.
The possibilities are limitless, but I'd start with these five.
How have you used video for training and coaching?
Sunday, May 3, 2009
Book Review: Kicked, Bitten, and Scratched
I reviewed Amy Sutherland's "What Shamu Taught me about Life, Love, and Marriage" in a previous post.
An enjoyable, quick read - it was a no-brainer to add "Kicked, Bitten, and Scratched" to my reading list.
Monday, December 29, 2008
What Did I Do All Year?
It seems like a good time to ask that question, right?
- Spent January and Febuary in India, Singapore and Bali. Taught, watched classical dance, ate great food and spent time with good friends.
- Was certified in DISC Profiling at Ken Blanchards in San Diego. Totally abused the champagne brunch at the Hotel Del Coronado with Angie, Tomo and John.
- Was certified in Six Thinking Hats in Phoenix. Visited Taliesen and Sedona.
- Taught in beautiful Tucson. Hiked the desert country.
- Was certified in Leadership Challenge at Sonoma Learning Systems in Sonoma, California with Brent and Ken. Drank a little wine.
- Taught a number of sessions in Yokohama, Japan. Sang some karaoke with Haemi-chan.
- Started my Masters in Adult Education. Completed 5 out of 13 courses by the end of the year.
- Worked with Nancy Duarte (author of Slideology).
- Went to Los Cabos. Spotted whales, coyotes, and Ryan Seacrest. Released baby turtles to the wild.
- Worked towards certification in High Tech Speaking.
Tuesday, December 9, 2008
The Facilitation Diamond

If you're at all interested in teamwork, thinking, creativity, decision-making, or facilitation - you should read "Facilitator's Guide to Participatory Decision-Making" and keep it on your shelf for reference.
- Opening: Go over the agenda. Share the diamond flow. Perhaps a quick exercise.
- Diverging Activity 1: Present traditional or evolutionary ideas.
- Diverging Activity 2: Stimulate non-tradition, revolutionary ideas.
- Transition: A break or a brain-cleansing exercise.
- Converging Activity 1: To narrow the multitude of ideas to some actionable ones.
- Converging Activity 2: To chose the best one (or 3 - 5 ideas).
- Closing: Decide on next actions
Sunday, December 7, 2008
Facilitator's Toolbox Updates
I've updated the The Facilitator's Toolbox.
- The addition of the Conscious Competence Model
- More links to my writings about these tools
- And external links for many of the tools that I haven't written about yet.
Saturday, December 6, 2008
Book Review: "Don't Shoot The Dog" and the Ten Laws of Shaping
As I mentioned in an earlier post, I've been interested in behavioral training since my visit to Sea World's "Trainer for a Day".
Author: Karen Pryor,
Genre: Behavior, Psychology, Training, Animals
- Raise criteria in increments small enough that the subject always has a realistic chance for reinforcement.
- Train one aspect of any particular behavior at a time. Don't try to shape for two criteria simultaneously.
- During shaping, put the current level of response onto a variable schedule of reinforcement before adding or raising the criteria.
- When introducing a new criterion, or aspect of the behavioral skill, temporarily relax the old ones.
- Stay ahead of your subject: Plan your shaping program completely so that if the the subject makes sudden progress, you are aware of what to reinforce next.
- Don't change trainers in midstream: you can have several trainers per trainee, but stick to one shaper per behavior.
- If one shaping procedure is not eliciting progress, find another; there are as many ways to get behavior as there are trainers to think them up.
- Don't interrupt a training session gratuitously. That constitutes a punishment.
- If behavior deteriorates, "go back to kindergarten": quickly review the whole shaping process with a series of easily earned reinforcers.
- End each session on a high note, if possible, but in any case quit while you're ahead.
Strengths: Entertaining and clear with excellent examples.
Weaknesses: No photos?
Conclusion: As I said earlier - a must read for teachers, trainers, and learners.
Follow all these steps and you might get this result (a dolphin even I can ride!).
Post-it Flags: 37 flags
Thursday, October 23, 2008
Trying to Keep Up with Tom Peters
Today, we started a new 'lunch and learn' program in our cafeteria.
- “Reward excellent failures. Punish mediocre successes.” - Phil Daniels, Sydney Exec
- “The ‘surplus society’ has a surplus of similar companies, employing similar people, with similar educational backgrounds, coming up with similar ideas, producing similar things, with similar prices and similar quality.” - Kjell Nordstrom and Jonas Ridderstrale, Funky Business
- Michelangelo: “The greatest danger for most of us is not that our aim is too high and we miss it, but that it is too low and we reach it.”
Wednesday, October 22, 2008
Build Better Slides with Nancy Duarte's slide:ology
Tuesday, October 21, 2008
Masters Update - Is it worth it?
Since July, I've been working on my Masters Degree in Adult Education and Training from the University of Phoenix. It's an online degree, which was important to me, given my travel and work schedules.
- Convenience - I don't have to drive to school. All participation is online. The schedule is extremely flexible. I can attend anywhere, anytime.
- Learning becomes a habit. You know the '21 days theory'? Do anything for 21 straight days and it will become a habit. I find online learning to be like that. Participation is required four days a week, but it's easier to log in for about 30 minutes everyday. It then becomes a habit.
- Course Content - The content has been extremely interesting. I'm reading books I would never read (Action Learning), learning concepts I would never learn (ontological humility) and having discussions (text messaging in the classroom) thatI would never have.
- Diversity - I'm getting to interface with a diverse audience of school teachers from all over the US. It's been very interesting to hear their challenges and passions.
- Virtual Teams - I'm learning how to work on a virtual team - a critical skill.
- Forums - I love answering questions in a forum. You have time to think, everyone participates, and you can go back to reread interesting questions and answers.
- Access - to the University online library.
- Not Business Focused - While I enjoy the presence of so many school teachers, there are not enough corporate students for my taste. The discussions often end up focusing on school issues.
- Virtual Teams - It can be hard to work on the teams remotely. There have been a couple of frustrating moments when classmates dropped out or didn't do their work. But hey... that's just like 'real life'.
- The Teaching Portfolio - We haven't used it yet, so I'm looking forward to seeing how it is applied.
- Adaptation -Seeing how I've adapted to an online environment.
- Presentations? Doing Power Points in an online environment. I'm very close to listing this as a negative, but I'll wait. It seems to be reinforcing the idea that Power Point is a suitable vehicle for emailing communication (hint: It's not!!).
That idea isn't just wrong... it's dangerous... to business, anyway.
Tuesday, October 7, 2008
Book Review: "What Shamu Taught Me about Life, Love and Marriage" by Amy Sutherland

- Consider what you are reinforcing - Any interaction is training. We're always teaching or reinforcing some behavior, so be clear what it is you want to reinforce.
- Ignore what you don’t like - Negative feedback rarely works. Better to ignore and redirect.
- Use incompatible behaviors - A dog can't chew on the coach and a tennis ball at the same time. An employee can't chitchat and clean up the stockroom at the same time. Substitute
- Know your species - Know them really well. Know what makes them tick and what pisses them off. Know their patterns so you see when they're off. Know what you cannot change.
- Don’t act like a prey animal around a predator - Don't be a victim...
Strengths: It's an engaging read. There are some interesting lessons. Amy Sutherland is a likable guide through this world of animal training.
Weaknesses: It’s written more as a memoir than as a ‘how-to’. If you’re looking to steal some training tips, this probably isn’t the best book.
Conclusion: My search continues. I like Amy Sutherland’s writing style and will be reading “Kicked, Bitten, and Scratched”, but I’ve also started reading Karen Pryor’s “Lads Before the Wind” as I continue my search for the book that gives me some clear tricks and tips.
Post-it Flags: 17 flags
* Each time I find an interesting quote, model, image, or idea in a book, I mark it with a Post-it flag. The more flags, the more value I found in the book.
Tuesday, September 30, 2008
Identifying Your Training Weaknesses
I'm a book geek. One of the few things I like better than a bookstore is a used bookstore.
Petaluma, California has a very good one called Copperfields, where Angie and I spent a couple hours yesterday.
I bought a mint copy of "101 Stupid Things Trainers Do to Sabotage Success" there and leafed through it last night.
The book serves as an excellent reminder of how many things can go wrong in a training situation.
My pet peeve is #64 - Foolish Icebreakers. I hate icebreakers. If a class is properly designed, the introduction of attendees should happen organically. If you want me to do a formal introduction, fine... but don't ask me to pick which animal is most like me. Just ask me to introduce myself. Better yet, give us a topic-relevant exercise that requires us to meet each other.
Two that I could be better at would be #41 - using inappropriate humor - occasionally my filter doesn't work quickly enough, and #86 - flopping flip charts. I'm a frequent user of flip charts, but this book reminded me that once you flip the page, people can't see what you wrote. The book suggests hanging the important sheets (and they're all important, or you wouldn't be writing them, right?) so the group can refer back to them.
Great suggestion, and a good book.
What are your biggest training weaknesses?
Wednesday, September 17, 2008
My Five Attempts at Chiasmus...
I always preach learning in action... so here goes...
Having just finished a book on chiasmus (see the post below), I've attempted to write five chiasmus. No promise that these are original - just that I wrote them spontaneously.
- Doing what you know is as important as knowing what you do.
- I'll remember to remind you, if you remind me to remember. (this is a conversation that Angie and I had on multiple occasions, sadly)
- It's not the fall that hurts - it's the hurt who fall.
- A heart should not hold a love that blooms. A heart should be a bloom that loves.
- She sure was pretty.... at least, I'm pretty sure.
Your turn!
Monday, September 8, 2008
Top Five Benefits of a Peer Review
This comic illustrates perfectly what a peer review shouldn't look like.
I'm doing a major redesign on one of our core classes, and it's a normal step for us to request a peer review when we've got something substantial to show.
As I just finished my draft of the 100+ page workbook, I asked the crew for a 1 hour review this morning.
For us, a peer review is informal - taking place in our sofa-furnished brainstorm lab, with post-it notes for everyone.
Here are my top five benefits of a peer review.
- Everyone gets to know what you're working on - This kills any duplication of effort, consolidates resources, and makes sure you don't end up on anyone's project plan ("I didn't think you were busy").
- You learn - I got six great suggestions from the team. Things I wouldn't have thought of on my own.
- You build momentum - Seeing their enthusiasm re-doubled my enthusiasm. After all the work, I was a little burnt-out. Not any more!!
- Talking brings clarity - I worked on this course in silence for too long. It's really helpful to get words out of your head and into the air, so you can hear how dumb they sound - and then improve them.
- You get buy-in - No one can tell you later that it sucks, unless they're willing to assume some responsibility.
Now, depending on your team dynamics, all five of these could be potentially frightening.
Fortunately, my team is fairly functional (if you don't count me...), so these are productive sessions.
Do you do peer reviews? Tell us about them...
Sunday, September 7, 2008
Crushed by Curiosity
I'm destined to die under a pile of books... not a bad to go, though.
Today I stopped by Recycle Book Store, in San Jose.
It was either a great idea or a terrible idea. I'm not sure.
What I do know is that I bought 10 more books, on top of the 20-some that I bought a couple weeks ago, during another used book buying spree.
I bought:
- "The Dip" by Seth Godin
- "Writing Ethnographic Fieldnotes" by Emerson, Fretz, and Shaw
- "Research Methods in Cultural Anthropology" by H. Russell Bernard
- "Musicophilia" by Oliver Sacks
- "Writing Up Qualitative Research" by Harry F. Wolcott
- "Effective Training Strategies" by Davis and Davis
- "Bottom-line Training" by Donald J. Ford
- "Encouraging The Heart" by Kouzes and Posner
- "Lateral Thinking" by Edward deBono
- "Rhetoric & On Poetics" by Aristotle
- I'm a huge fan of Oliver Sacks. "The Man Who Mistook His Wife for a Hat" is one of my favorite books.
- The ethnography books look really interesting. I'm curious about using ethnographic techniques at work.
- I already own copies of "Encouraging The Heart" and "Lateral Thinking", but I couldn't pass up clean, hard-copy 1st editions of either.
- And I have "Rhetoric & On Poetics" as well. This copy is hardcover, with readable typeface, though. That's pretty unusual.
Thursday, September 4, 2008
Mindmapping huesworks
click image to enlargeIt's a cool, easy site to use.
I spend most of my days exploring and working in these areas.
This blog will focus on these areas as well.
- MLT - Management, Leadership & Teams
- LT - Learning and Training
- CIT - Creativity, Innovation & Thinking
- DC - DesignComm or Design in Communication
- GC - Global Culture
Row two lists resources and activities that I leverage in my exploration of these areas.
A number of them, like books, occur in all areas.
Finally, row three lists my offerings or outputs in these areas.
You'll find more information about these from the offerings tab at the top of this blog.


